Archive for December, 2009

New Year pledge

I have come to realise that a lot of people fail to keep to their New Year resolution simply because of complex nature of most New Year resolutions. To this end, I want to share with you the simple method that I use to remain motivated and focused all year long.
I call it ‘SAY’ method. [...]

Love- what colour is it?

Once upon a time, colours converged at a certain square to wrestle for supremacy; this is to put an end to the long time argument over which colour is more important. Red said “I am more important because I represent LOVE; Blue said “I am more important because I am more soothing to the eyes. [...]

22 Surefire ways to be HAPPY and live almost forever

How many of us know that we can greatly extend our life span simply by becoming happy? Am sure all of you know. Ok! How many of you know how to be happy? I bet not all of you. So in this article are (22) twenty tested ways to be happy and live almost FOREVER!

Surround [...]

Motivation, can it be found in a noisy place?

Heard melodies are sweet, but unheard melodies are sweeter. Laughter has healing power, but gentle smile has more healing power. Beautiful sights soothe the eyes, but it cannot be compared to that beautiful picture(s) in our mind’s eyes. External motivation helps but cannot be compared to the joy that comes from that small still voice [...]

Wedding vs. Marriage

 What are you struggling for? Are you struggling preparing for your wedding or marriage? I know a guy that spent about Six Million Naira (N 6,000,000.00) on his wedding only to divorce his wife eight months down the line. Shee! What a wedding?
I can bet you also know or have heard of somebody who also [...]

Office motivation is ……

Office motivation is one aspect of personal development that a lot of people have seriously neglected or at best misunderstand. They tend to think that it makes no difference whether they are motivated in the office or not.
One probable cause of this is the ‘what is in it for me attitude’ they feel they are [...]

Pre-marital sex- 10 deadly lies about it

 
It has come to my notice that a lot of youngsters go into pre-marital sex for the fear of the unknown. Our parents have failed in one of their primary duties – giving their children sound education (sex education inclusive) In the course of my numerous casual counseling, I found out that many people go [...]